I had dinner with a friend recently and we discussed possibility.
She is of the mindset that there are limitations to what is available to us.
I am of the mindset that anything is possible.
Everything we truly want (let's leave super powers and such out of this) is possible.
She thinks I look at life through rose colored...
What you think about you affects what is possible for you.
If that is true, and it is, what does that mean for you?
Is there a gap between who you are and who you want to be?
What if I told you that gap is optional?
Whatever you think now is an option.
And whatever you want to think is an option.
Decide who you want to be and start...
Do it today.
Do it often.
Betting on yourself looks like making a decision even when you don't know 100% what the outcome will be.
Having your own back, no matter what.
Deciding to go all in. No second guessing. No wondering if you made the right choice.
Deciding to love your choice and get everything you came for from it.
Be willing to be wrong.
Being willing to be wrong means possibility.
Our brains want us to be right but right can mean no other option.
Being right is limiting.
Getting curious about how I could be wrong in all areas of my life was a huge turning point for me.
It's what helped me discover my super power.
My ability to...
I coached someone recently who bought an online course two weeks ago and has not started it.
She puts it on her calendar to do 30 minutes each day.
Each day she finds something else to do during those 30 minutes.
She said "I don't have time."
Which she realized was a lie because she had it on her calendar specifically for an open 30...
Who is in charge of setting and meeting your goals?
Of course, your goals require you.
But what version of you?
You are multi faceted. Multi dimensional.
And some of the time, those different facets and dimensions compete with each other.
Argue with each other.
A part that wants one thing.
And another part that wants something...
Goals get a bad rap sometimes.
They bring up thoughts of lost New Year's resolutions.
Unaccomplished vision board items.
I don't want to shock you, but the goal is not the problem.
There is nothing wrong with your goals.
And there is nothing wrong with you.
But, there are 3 things that could be going wrong and...
Setting goals just sets you up for disappointment. At least that is what I thought.
I thought life just takes you where it will and you hope to get what you want along the way.
Until I uncovered the joy of goal setting.
I set a goal to get a Director level position.
Then a goal to make six figures.
Then a goal to become a Regional...
Be a big deal!
Go after the dream job.
Get paid what you know you deserve.
Ask for what you think is not possible.
Playing small and understated is serving no one.
Not you. Not the world.
You have so much to offer and you are holding back because, Why?
Because you are trying to protect yourself from, What?
Fear of embarrassment, humiliation,...