Coulda Shoulda Woulda

Today's video blog post is all about the difference between could, should and want to.
Why I share this with you is that oftentimes we find ourselves stating, with complete belief, that we should do something.
And sometimes we think we should do something because we can.
Many times when we say we should do...
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Are you a Misaligned Martyr?


What is your self concept?

Who you are being may not match who you think you are.

Who you want to be.

Tapping into your values and desired identity creates a self concept you love.

Creating a self concept you love is the start to identifying your true wants.

Creating the feelings and actions needed to go out and get them.

It's the start to...

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Self Confidence vs. Confidence


Know the difference?

If you don't, you want to.

Knowing the difference and how to create each can help you move through uncertainty and become a more confident person.

Knowing this made a big difference in my life.

Watch and then decide, how self confident are you on a scale of 1-10?

What would you need to think to make it a 10?


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Remove the Layers of Limitation

I had dinner with a friend recently and we discussed possibility.

She is of the mindset that there are limitations to what is available to us.

I am of the mindset that anything is possible.

Everything we truly want (let's leave super powers and such out of this) is possible.  

She thinks I look at life through rose colored...

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Close the Self Concept Gap


What you think about you affects what is possible for you.

If that is true, and it is, what does that mean for you?

Is there a gap between who you are and who you want to be?

What if I told you that gap is optional?

Whatever you think now is an option.

And whatever you want to think is an option.

A choice.

Decide who you want to be and start...

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Betting on Yourself


Do it today.

Do it often.

Betting on yourself looks like making a decision even when you don't know 100% what the outcome will be.

Having your own back, no matter what. 

Deciding to go all in.  No second guessing.  No wondering if you made the right choice.

Deciding to love your choice and get everything you came for from it.


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Be Wrong


Be willing to be wrong. 

Being willing to be wrong means possibility. 

Our brains want us to be right but right can mean no other option.  

Being right is limiting.

Getting curious about how I could be wrong in all areas of my life was a huge turning point for me.

It's what helped me discover my super power.

My ability to...

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What to do when I don't want to do what I want done?

 I coached someone recently who bought an online course two weeks ago and has not started it.

She puts it on her calendar to do 30 minutes each day.

Each day she finds something else to do during those 30 minutes.

She said "I don't have time."

Which she realized was a lie because she had it on her calendar specifically for an open 30...

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What version of you do your goals require?

Who is in charge of setting and meeting your goals?

Of course, your goals require you.

But what version of you?

You are multi faceted.  Multi dimensional.  

And some of the time, those different facets and dimensions compete with each other.

Argue with each other.

A part that wants one thing.

And another part that wants something...

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What is your goal identity?

What is your goal identity?
Do you love them or hate them
Set them or refuse to set them
Follow through or don't follow through
Most people know their tendencies towards goals.
Or, think they do.
I'd like to offer that you set and achieve goals all of the time.
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